New Class on Wednesdays for parents

News release:  I’m teaching a three week class at Cornerstone EPC.

Family Discipleship
Teacher: Pastor Tim Brown
Location: Room 605
January 13, 20, and 27
*For all parents — walk-ins welcome*

The Apostle John writes, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” (3 John 1:4) There is nothing greater than having children who know and follow Jesus. If you’re a parent, you’ve been entrusted with a special mission – you are the primary disciple maker in your child’s life. Feel overwhelmed? Well, don’t be! We want to help you. Come get a helpful mix of encouragement, training and fellowship in this brief three week series. Plus, get a free book just for coming!

The basic premise of this class is that parents, not Sunday school teachers will answer to God for the discipleship of the youth of our church. If you are a parent, you need encouragement. The job is not easy.

More on this in future blogs.

Tim

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10 Questions

These ten questions are from Dr. Don Whitney.  I hope that you enjoy reflecting on them.  You can find more from him at www.biblicalspirituality.org

Ten Questions to ask at the start of a new year

Once, when the people of God had become careless in their relationship with Him, the Lord rebuked them through the prophet Haggai. “Consider your ways!” (Haggai 1:5) he declared, urging them to reflect on some of the things happening to them, and to evaluate their slipshod spirituality in light of what God had told them.

Even those most faithful to God occasionally need to pause and think about the direction of their lives. It’s so easy to bump along from one busy week to another without ever stopping to ponder where we’re going and where we should be going.

The beginning of a new year is an ideal time to stop, look up, and get our bearings. To that end, here are some questions to ask prayerfully in the presence of God.

1. What’s one thing you could do this year to increase your enjoyment of God?
2. What’s the most humanly impossible thing you will ask God to do this year?
3. What’s the single most important thing you could do to improve the quality of your family life this year?
4. In which spiritual discipline do you most want to make progress this year, and what will you do about it?
5. What is the single biggest time-waster in your life, and what will you do about it this year?
6. What is the most helpful new way you could strengthen your church?
7. For whose salvation will you pray most fervently this year?
8. What’s the most important way you will, by God’s grace, try to make this year different from last year?
9. What one thing could you do to improve your prayer life this year?
10. What single thing that you plan to do this year will matter most in ten years? In eternity?

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Giving the BEST Christmas gifts to your children

What do you get for the person who has everything?

If we are following the model of Jesus at Christmas, his gift was his presence with us.  Therefore the best, most important gifts we can give to our children revolve around giving the gift of ourselves.

Here are 6 things you can give to your family this Christmas season.

Create enduring traditions as a family

1. Chop down a Christmas tree (together!)

2. Have a special breakfast Christmas morning

3. When you open presents, do it with a special twist

Give a creative gift of your time for Christmas to be spent throughout the year.

Here’s a thought!  give your children a booklet of coupons to be used to request special time with Dad or Mom.

Ice-cream, donut shop, apple picking, sledding, arts and crafts, go to a bounce house gym, Breakfast out at the restaurant of their choice, etc.  Choose as many as you think you can handle in 2010 and then give them away!

When you do them, take time to talk with them and give them the gift of being listened to in  meaningful conversation.

Wrap up tickets to a special event.  The nice thing is that you’ll be giving it twice—first when they open it and then again when you take them out.  I love double credit!

Try this, plan a surprise outing  and don’t tell them where you’re going  (plan 3 or 4 stops along the way)

Have advent devotionals together

  1. Buy and use The Advent Book http://www.adventbook.com/
  2. Advent Calendar (a calendar with ~25 doors leading you upto the day of Christmas)
  3. Read the Christmas story by candle-light
  4. Advent Wreath (four candles—light one per week, followed by white fifth candle on Christmas Eve)

Begin a year-round habit of family devotions

If you take the step of gathing at Christmas time, why not keep the momentum going by doing it right through the year.  My family and I we gather 2-3 times per week. (T, Th, Sat.)  We are reading through a book of the bible, memorizing an age-appropriate catechism, singing 2 songs together and praying.  We have a binder for each child with the songs, and extra paper for artwork

Some of the benefits of family worship are: my wife and I Model worship, be begin to balance some more formal instruction to accompany the day to day stuff (informal), we increase teachable moments—we can say, “remember when we talked about…”  If you need help getting started, I would highly recommend Donald Whitney’s lecture and/or booklet on Family Worship http://biblicalspirituality.org/fworder1.html

Repair broken relationships

Maybe you’ve hurt one or more of your children by your attitudes, words or actions.  If so, saying your sorry is one of the most healing things you can do.  Saying, “I’m sorry,” to them rebuilds the bridge of relationship and clarifies that sin (even your own) is wrong.

Learn and practice “speaking” your child’s love language

According to Gary Chapman there are 5 love languages.  We each give and receive love in particular ways (languages).  If we learn to give love the way another receives it, we can hit a home run.  The five languages are:

  1. Words of Affirmation
  2. Quality Time
  3. Receiving Gifts
  4. Acts of service
  5. Physical Touch

God bless and have a wonderful advent season!

Tim

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The gospel summarized

iStock_00000 open bibleThe best way to summarize the gospel is to tell the story in several movements.  You’ll get the same  message in longest form if you read the bible from cover to cover—but that’s the very long version.  I’ll give you my summary below (a drama in six acts), but let me give you a “Twitter summary” and a three sentence summary.

Twitter length summary

Christ died to save us from our sins and will transform the world for God’s glory—ending evil and establishing His glorious reign over all! (139 characters)

Three sentence summary

The gospel is the message of hope to mankind that even though we have sinned against God and made ourselves his enemies, God has taken initiative and provided the cure for our plight.  This cure centers around the person and work of His Son Jesus Christ who lived a sinless life, died on the cross for our sins, and was raised again to life.  By the work of the Holy Spirit, God makes a person understand, believe and respond to this wonderful message and causes them to live a new life that results in personal transformation and ultimately the transformation of the whole world.

LONGER SUMMARY

Our Origins

The Bible teaches that mankind was created by a loving God.  He made the world and all we know.  The first two humans were Adam and Eve.  They were created by God’s direct intervention and were placed in a garden called Eden.  Everything was perfect and the world was theirs to enjoy and influence.

Romans 5:12 Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, and in this way death came to all men, because all sinned.

Our Plight

However, our first parents (Adam and Eve) disobeyed God and ate from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.  The consequence was death to them and all their descendents (that’s us).  Our nature, from birth, is to continue in their rebellion by our attitudes and actions.

Colossians 1:21 Once you were alienated from God and were enemies in your minds because of your evil behavior.

God’s Promise

Even though God’s consequences are felt by all of humanity, we have not been left to ourselves.  God has promised that he would send the Messiah, Jesus—His son, who would reverse the plight of humanity.

Colossians 1:22 But now he has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation—

Christ’s Provision

God sent his Son, Jesus, to live the life we could not live and to die the death we should have died.  Jesus was the most amazing human ever—he was more than human.  As God’s Son, he existed before time and became a man to identify with us.  Ever since he was brought to earth, he has two natures—divine and human.  He did that so that as a human he could be our substitute, but as God his payment would be acceptable to a holy God for all he saves.

1 Peter 3:18 For Christ died for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive by the Spirit.

Faith in Christ

The gospel therefore tells us that if we will own up to our sins, and place our trust (faith) in Christ, God receives the finished work of Christ as acceptable for what we failed to do.  What we do is we transfer our trust from ourselves (and our ability to live well, fix the mess, etc) and instead believe that Christ has paid in full the debt we could not.  God actually enable us to accept and believe this message by a working of his Holy Spirit within us.

Here’s a summary from Galatians 4 (putting verse 8 at the front end)

Galatians 4:4-8 (8 Formerly, when you did not know God, you were slaves to those who by nature are not gods.)  4 But when the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under law,  5 to redeem those under law, that we might receive the full rights of sons.  6 Because you are sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, “Abba, Father.”  7 So you are no longer a slave, but a son; and since you are a son, God has made you also an heir.

New Life in Christ

Those who repent of their sins and put their faith in Christ by the working of the Holy Spirit are born afresh by that same Spirit who lives in them and helps them to live out the full life God wants.  We call this “born again,” or “conversion,” “regeneration,” or simply—becoming a Christian.  At this new birth God gives the believer several important gifts:

  1. total forgiveness of sins (justification)
  2. membership in God’s family (adoption)
  3. the ongoing power of the Holy Spirit (leading to sanctification)
  4. spiritual gifts (talents to use for his kingdom)

Someone who has accepted the gospel is now restored to a right relationship with God and lives that out the rest of their life, and will inherit the blessing of life for all eternity with God.  In the mean time we will be his agents on earth to help others know him and do good things that restore God’s peace to the world.

2 Corinthians 5:17-21 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!  18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation:  19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation.  20 We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.  21 God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.

Grace and peace,

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Tim

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The Rapture—when and where?

I know that millions of people (Christians in particular) are awaiting the rapture. This is the moment when they will be wisked away before all hell breaks loose on planet earth. But, allow me to gently and humbly suggest that this “rapture==>left behind” view is right about the suddenness of Christ’s return, but wrong about what happens next.

This view that millions of people will be standing around wondering where everyone went and headed toward the great tribulation has little in the bible to support it. In fact, rather the opposite, I believe the bible makes it rather clear that Christ coming for his own will be the end of history. I would encourage you to consider these views as “noble Bereans” and test my view against the “rapture==> left behind/tribulation” view.

Rather than the unregenerate being “left behind” for the great tribulation–wondering where everyone disappeared to, I believe that when the “rapture” happens we who remain are changed, meet the Lord in the air with resurrected believers and return to the earth immediately to stand before Christ for final judgment (together with all humanity, those who died apart from Christ and those who lived apart from Christ.) This is the end and death will be defeated right then and there.

1 Corinthians 15:51-55 51 Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed– 52 in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed. 53 For the perishable must clothe itself with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality. 54 When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory.” 55 “Where, O death, is your victory? Where, O death, is your sting?”

When we are transformed (i.e. “raptured”) then death will also be ended. Why? Because, all will be raised and all will face final judgment together. That is not what “raptureàleft behind” advocates say. If death is ended at his coming and our rapture, then there is no more “fierce wrath of God” to be poured out on humanity in history. For when that event happens: a) Christ descends, b) we meet him in the air, c) Christ judges the world. End of story. It will be sudden; but there’s nothing I can find in the bible to convince me that anyone will be left behind.

1 Thessalonians 4:16-18 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. 18 Therefore encourage each other with these words.

Revelation 1:7 Look, he is coming with the clouds, and every eye will see him, even those who pierced him; and all the peoples of the earth will mourn because of him. So shall it be! Amen.

rapture predicted 1992When he comes, everyone will see him. This is directly contradicted in the rapture/left behind view. Who say that no-one will see him.

At the end of history all the dead are raised—the just and the unjust at the same time.

Revelation 20:11-15 11 Then I saw a great white throne and him who was seated on it. Earth and sky fled from his presence, and there was no place for them. 12 And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Another book was opened, which is the book of life. The dead were judged according to what they had done as recorded in the books. 13 The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to what he had done. 14 Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. The lake of fire is the second death. 15 If anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.

Matthew 25:31-34 31 “When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. 34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world…. Matthew 25:40-41 40 “The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’ 41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels.

I believe Christ second coming is the end. There will be nothing after that. So yes, he will come in an instant. But those who are not caught up, will be presently judged immediately. There is no tribulation after his once and final return. There is no secret return.

1 Corinthians 15:22-24 22 For as in Adam all die, so in Christ all will be made alive. 23 But each in his own turn: Christ, the firstfruits; then, when he comes, those who belong to him. 24 Then the end will come, when he hands over the kingdom to God the Father after he has destroyed all dominion, authority and power.

In summary here’s the order of events as I read them from the scriptures:

  1. Christ returns (see all relvant texts above)
  2. The dead in Christ are raised (1 Thess. 4; 1 Cor. 15:23)
  3. All the dead are raised (1 Cor. 15:23) “the dead are raised imperishable”
  4. We who are alive and remain are take up (1 Cor. 15:52; 1 Thess. 4:17)
  5. Every eye sees him because: (Rev. 1:7)
  6. the sea gives up it’s dead & those un-regenerate non-raptured people witness his descent with us his holy ones (Rev. 20:11)
  7. Jesus judges the nations (Matthew 25:31-45)
  8. Death is no more (1 Cor. 15:54)
  9. Then the end will come (1 Cor. 15:24)
  10. He hands the kingdom over to his Father (1 Cor. 15:24)

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